An Expert Shares Her Personal Struggles

Here's a link to an interesting article in the NY Times on a therapist's personal struggles with mental illness. What moved me was her sharing of her own vulnerability and her being authentic with her clients.http://www.nytimes.com/2011/06/23/health/23lives.html?hp

Review of The Art of Flourishing on www.truerefuge.com

Zachary Taylor, a therapist and meditator, just posted a review of The Art of Flourishing on his blog: TrueRefuge.com posted their review at: http://www.truerefuge.com/2011/06/new-book-the-art-of-flourishing/.

Divorce and Flourishing

Here's a link to an insightful article on handling divorce by Mark Schwartz in HuffPost Divorce: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/mark-schwartz/partying-is-such-sweet-so_b_875554.html
Socratic vs. Accepted Wisdom and Divorce
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Men and the Mind-Body Connection

Here is a link to a piece that appeared on men and mind-body harmony that appeared on Huffington Post this morning: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jeffrey-rubin-phd/mind-body-connection_b_878851.html

Talk and book signing at Tibet House

I am doing a talk and book signing at Tibet House tonight at 7 PM: http://tibethouse.us/programs/full-calendar/view/581294/114

Winning in a Relationship is a Losing Strategy

Here is a link to a piece in Huffington Post on the number one obstacle to intimacy: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jeffrey-rubin-phd/winning-in-a-relationship_b_874470.html

Talk and Book Signing at Tibet House

I am doing a talk and book signing at Tibet House this Thursday at 7 PM: http://tibethouse.us/programs/full-calendar/view/581294/114

How Anthony Weiner Might Save His Marriage

Here's a blog on how "Anthony Weiner Might Save His Marriage" on my Psychology Today blog: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/the-art-flourishing/201106/how-anthony-weiner-might-save-his-marriage

Talk and book signing -- Ethical Culture Society of Essex County, NJ

I will be giving a talk and doing a book signing on The Art of Flourishing tomorrow (Sunday) at the Ethical Culture Society of Essex County, NJ.(essexethical.org) at 11 AM. They are located at 516 Prospect Street, Maplewood, NJ 07040.

Behavioral Buddhism

Here's a piece on Behavioral Buddhism that appeared this morning on AOL Healthy Living: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jeffrey-rubin-phd/become-a-behavioral-buddh_b_874550.html

Interview on The Art of Flourishing in today's Huffigton Post

Here's an interview on The Art of Flourishing in today's Huffington Post:http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jesse-kornbluth/take-buddhism-add-freud-a_b_873008.html

Announcement about The Art of Flourishing

The Art of Flourishing is out today. It provides the reader with the tools necessary to thrive, to live a life of meaning, passion, and fulfillment. I will be doing a talk and book signing at JCC of NY on June 13th and Tibet House on June 16th. The Art of Flourishing is available in bookstores, online at Amazon , Random House, Barnes & Noble, IndieBound, or Borders and as an e-book.

Zen and The Art of Flourishing

Thank you Andre for posting a feature on THE ART OF FLOURISHING at:
http://zenandbackagain.blogspot.com/2011/06/art-of-flourishing.html

Zen and Back Again: The Art of Flourishing
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The journey of an American Zen Buddhist, including book reviews, reflections on practice, and practical ways to apply the Dharma in our lives.

Yoga and Flourishing

-FitYogis.com posted an excerpt of The Art of Flourishing at:
http://fityogis.com/kids-yoga/the-art-of-flourishing
Fit Yogis | Yoga for Kids | The Art of Flourishing
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Measuring our Ourselves

Human beings spend a great deal of time measuring how they doing and comparing themselves with other people and their own images of how they should be doing. I think we often do this because we have the fantasy that we are not okay and we are trying to justify our existence. A better use of our time would be to live our lives based on what inspires us.

Healing Self-Contempt

Many adults feel self-contempt. And then seek—and are convinced they found—confirmation of their badness. One way of addressing this is to explore experiences that disconfirm one’s sense of worthlessness. But a person who is convinced he or she is weak and cowardly may have had experiences of strength and courage. Have you had experiences that challenge your worst stories about yourself?

Widening the Story of Who We Are

Traumatized people often feel worthless and relentlessly seek -- and believe that they are constantly finding -- confirmation of their badness. Sometimes it is helpful to explore whether they have had any experiences that challenge their stories about their inadequacies. The person who is convinced they are weak and inadequate, for example, may have had experiences of strength and courage.